Entrepreneur
Nigerian & American
Sports fanatic turned health & finance fanatic
-Won 3 football championships in a row in high school
Raised by a single Mom for the past 33 years of life
-Had Daddy issues into my mid 20s
Pops had an absent father; has major Daddy issues as well
I got kicked out of my Mom's when I was 19 & been on my own ever since. That was the greatest time of my life because that's when I learned how to be a man: survive without basic necessities, pay my cell phone bill on time, created a "street business" to support myself, & I broke my own heart by not being a solid man for the girl I wanted to marry (my then girlfriend, separated for 4 years & rekindled the flame & made her my wife). Lost all faith in God; didn't have any focus on anything besides money & survival. I was unemployed from 2008-2013
I was being a F-boy as they call it with multiple women I had feelings for; I was looking out for myself only except for 1 of those women who I still talk to this day, Elaina (disclaimer she & my wife are friends; another hilarious & ironic story on how they met). Elaina was the first woman to put me in check like my Mother would do & I appreciate her for all of that. That was a turning point in me leveling up to be a man & realizing I can't just run a street business anymore. I realized I wanted safety & security for the women in my life & running the streets put them in jeopardy.
2013 came around, fate & iPhone 4 reconnected my wife & I.. that was a sign to level up again because I didn't want to lose her again. I've known since high school that I was going to marry her, screwed up once, but wasn't going to let that happen again; so I changed EVERYTHiNG possible to make sure she was mine
After this, I rebuilt my relationship with my Mom also & that was when I realized God does love me.
I fixed my foundation of love & relationships, but was still lacking in the financial category. I knew how to make money & run a business, but I didn't want to go back to that life so I got a job in the restaurant industry at a prominent country club in LA. I learned from successful businessman how they did it, but one thing they couldn't teach me was how to love their wife (they were F-boys too, wife at home but still paying for women to perform certain things)
Graduated from a trade school in 2015; went on to get my Ph.D in Hydrology (which lead me to my Kangen Water business in 2017)
2016 had my biggest test from God: my motorcycle accident; I'm grateful for that because it gave me time to figure out what I really wanted to do with my life because the 9-5 was NOT it. I went vegan shortly after that to heal properly rather than being addicted to pain pills for the rest of my life
I haven't had a job since then; haven't been running the street business since 2013; & started my financial freedom journey this past July
Faith
Freedom
Family
Fitness
Finances
Firearms
...in that order
We've heard from plenty of fathers at this point but what about fatherhood from a different perspective? This is one we can all relate to. On this episode of the 4 Fit Fatherhood Podcast Michael Cooper reminds us what life …